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It's the Small Moments that Count

It's the Small Moments that Count


Recently I had a huge 'Aha' moment. I realize that many of us spend our 'early' years celebrating big events or waiting for the next big thing to happen in our lives. As I get older, it's the small big things that make me truly happy. Vanilla nut coffee, ice cream with my kids, cuddling with kids, a movie with my baby girl or husband, watching an Alaska reality show with my son, a hot bubble bath, a PEDICURE...Yes!
I'm now learning to spend my time creating and being truly mindful about my small moments.

The grown folks were right! Live for the small moments. Work can't be your everything. Find your balance.

Have a great week!

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